People spend time with sex workers for many different reasons, both physical and emotional. In Tess’ experience, needs can vary hugely from one individual to another. The people who want to see a sex worker, sometimes it's about sex. But most of the time it's about connection, companionship. They just want to be held. They just want to be treated like a person. They just want to be touched. It's a very broad range, but I think it's not just sex, it's sexuality.” There are benefits to seeing sex as more than just intercourse and orgasms. Depending on mobility and level of ability, erections or penetration might not be on the table. It’s down to you and your client to decide what the sex will look like - whether it’s soft cock play, mutual masturbation, a make-out session, sensual ear-stroking, nipple teasing...or simply a good cuddle session 3.Ask the right questions, and listen to the answers Are you and your client a good fit_ How comfortable you are - and whether you can provide the right services